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Trollbabe

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySat Jan 04, 2020 4:57 pm

Hubby is back in the hospital. This time it's kidney disease.

We went to our usual hospital ER three times in three days. He was in horrible pain.

Each time they gave him drugs and sent him home. Each time, when the drugs wore off, he was hurting again.

After they sent him home the third time, I took him instead to an urgent care clinic. We waited 45 minutes until the clinic opened. He was in agony the whole time.

They told him he should have gone to the ER. We told him he did go to the ER.

The urgent care nurse offered to call an ambulance. We agreed and asked that he be taken to a different hospital.

Once we got to the ER, they gave him more tests and drugs and finally admitted him. That afternoon a doctor said he had kidney disease.

I'm too busy taking care of myself and watching over my husband to be angry right now. He is asleep for the first time in four days.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 05, 2020 3:18 am

Good grief! You have been through so much. Please remember to take care of yourself as well as your hubby.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 05, 2020 6:19 am

I'm so sorry you two had to go through such an ordeal again, Trollbabe. *hug*Sending healing thoughts and good wishes. Be well soon.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 05, 2020 7:56 pm

I'm sorry to hear he wasn't taken seriously, Trollbabe. I hope he'll get better and don't need a tranceplant. Best of luck to you both
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 05, 2020 8:21 pm

Yes, all good for you both!
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Trollbabe

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 05, 2020 10:26 pm

Friends, thank you for your kind thoughts.

My husband feels better. He was released this afternoon, and given prescriptions to help him get better.

Loved ones got scared when they heard the words "kidney disease." They immediately asked about dialysis.

Kidney disease varies widely in severity and isn't always permanent. We won't know much until the follow-up appointment. He doesn't appear to be in a life-threatening condition.

FWIW if there were kidneys available for transplant, I assume they would go to a younger person with fewer health issues. My sweet little husband has had many happy years and understands that better candidates deserve a chance at the same.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 06, 2020 12:13 am

Glad to hear your husband is doing better Trollbabe. I love you
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 06, 2020 3:34 am

So glad your husband is feeling better and was able to return home. *sends more healing wishes and good thoughts*

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyThu Jan 09, 2020 8:18 pm

Feeling... not tired, and I should be in bed. Bad combie
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 13, 2020 4:20 pm

Feeling... pretty tired. Waiting for our grocery delivery, then I'm gonna take a shower and hop into bed early.

Also dealing with the heartbreak of a recent break-up, but talking it over with awesome friends helps a lot. And the fact that the guy was a complete idiot, not quite meat to be wasted but damn he came close... it helps. Confirmation from said friends that I'm not crazy for thinking he emotionally manipulated me, it helps a lot.

many hugs and well wishes for everyone who needs and wants them.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 13, 2020 4:30 pm

*hugs* cathat

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 20, 2020 10:23 am

A bit disappointed. Missing the National March for Life this year. Too busy caring for a recovering husband.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 20, 2020 4:28 pm

hugs for everyone

feeling quite okay.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyThu Jan 23, 2020 11:40 am

Good lab results from the kidney doctor!

I am doubly disappointed that I can't attend the march tomorrow. President Trump is going to be there live! The Reagans and Bushes supported our cause but never attended the march.

The closest I've ever been to any American president was seeing former President Carter a few years ago. I could probably go see Clinton, Bush or Obama if they gave a speaking engagement, but seeing a President in office would really be cool.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyThu Jan 23, 2020 3:09 pm

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Good lab results from the kidney doctor!
cheers That's really good new, Trollbabe! Very Happy
*sending more good thoughts and wishes for an ongoing recovery*

I'm sorry you cannot attend the National March for Life, Trollbabe. *hugs* It's almost feelable how much you miss it.

It might sound strange but I'm very glad that you still wish for things and/or events besides vital necessities. Please don't get me wrong. Having other wishes or dreams than just the basics needs has become a synonym for "Being alive!" for me. I wish you wishes and dreams and that many of them will come true.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySat Jan 25, 2020 8:57 pm

That's great news Trollbabe! Smile

I'm feeling a bit grumpy frumpy. I have to be on-call all weekend for work...without any additional pay. My old company used to pay handsomely for this and it was on a volunteer basis only...and since they paid well they had plenty of volunteers. My time off work is very important to me so I never asked to cover those shifts...it just wasn't worth it to me.

The few times I had to work late or on weekends they would always give you those same hours or days off. That company may have been dysfunctional and mostly run by idiots, but one of the few things they did right was to take work/life balance very seriously. How I miss those days!

But a while back we were bought out by a nastybad evil company who not only made weekend work mandatory, they made us sign contracts stating that we would not be paid for this extra work. And no extra time off either. With my lifemate still dealing with some health issues it has made working my regular hours during the week very stressful and not being able to disconnect from work on the weekends is a nice kick in the berries.

For now I will just breathe and continue to imagine our management staff being burned alive while I keep looking for a better job.  drunken  drunken  drunken
This too, shall pass.  Rolling Eyes  affraid Laughing
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySun Jan 26, 2020 10:20 pm

I feel good. Leg aches a bit, but otherwise things are good.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 27, 2020 6:04 am

Glad to read so, G0lden. sunny I'm sure dagnado will keep you busi. ^^ Hopefully your leg will be better soon.

Your company made you and your co-worker sign WHAT? Suspect Pretty sure that is not legally allowed at my place. Rolling Eyes Good luck for a better job, Icetooth, and a fast and complete recovery for your lifemate.

Called in sick today How do you feel? - Page 22 911381222 <- tea! ... hope to get rid of this bug til tomorrow.
Back to bed.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 27, 2020 7:58 am

get well, soon, Embala.

Same for you Golden!

Ice Tooth, I wish you to have a better job as soon as possible. This is so beasty to force the employers to sign those contracts. The weekend is very important for all humans to recover and it is not even long enough to be able to.
Employer conditions are worse in USA than in Germany, but the tendency in Germany is towards Us standard .
This bloody system is at it`s soon end, it devours humans and the whole planet.

Good to read better news from your Hubby, Trollbabe.
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyMon Jan 27, 2020 8:52 pm

Thank you for the kind words everyone. I got them back today by doing as little as possible.  Laughing  Laughing  Laughing

Yeee unfortunately as a salaried employee...also referred to as "exempt" the US laws for overtime pay do not apply to me. So if they want to take advantage of that, they can. My old employer knew this was a stupid law and so they always took care of us.

My lifemate had the health emergency just days before my company was bought out and for the longest time I thought I was going to lose my job. I was so thankful that the new company wanted to re-hire me that I honestly didn't read every fine detail of the contract...and we were told by our managers if we refused to sign that we'd be effectively resigning and would lose all of our severance pay. And negotiating was not possible...it was either sign the contact, or get kicked to the curb with nothing.

Our managers could have fought this since we are all software specialists and there was no way the new company could offer our customers support without us, but they rolled over and showed throat without a fight and it is what it is. But it wasn't all bad...we did get some perks but none of them are worth having to work on the weekend without being paid a cent.

Thankfully we only have to work weekends every now and then...but it has really caused morale to tank. You are so right that time off is so very important...even though it was not busy I did not get to turn off "work mode" in my brain this weekend so this will eventually bite our overlords in the butt. Shocked
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyFri Feb 14, 2020 4:10 pm

Hope you feel better, Embala.

Glad to hear your husband is doing better, Trollbabe.

Icetooth, I hope you find a better job quickly. You and your lifemate deserve better. I hate such people.

And I might also be one of the fra people who dislike Valentine's Day😓 10 hours at work, with stupid red roses 😵😱🤪I swears if I ever get so lucky to marry, ROSES are the LAST thing I'll be using. I spent my day off at work to make buckets og bouqets with red roser ++ and wprked WAY overtid yesterday to finish them off do er har enough, I am so tired of them. I am overworked and tired and about to get sick. And I get so furious at one of my collegue who don't even offer to work overcome. Here the rest of us are working our heads off while she don't bother to answer the phone when er really need her. Icy's so......... I don't even have words.

Eccept from that, Valentine was a success this year.
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyFri Feb 14, 2020 4:29 pm

Much better. Thank you, dear! Very Happy *hugs*

Get some well deserved rest and stay well, Rainflower. cathat Success sounds primising. ^^

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptyFri Feb 14, 2020 7:05 pm

Thank you Embala. Sorry I see I sounded like I really am overworked. That's how I feel. Like I need sleep and that my throat is swelling up.

Good to be back though.😊
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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySat Feb 15, 2020 1:34 am

I left work early today. Was losing my voice. I had to repeat myself with some customers because of my lack of voice. Its a mild cold so I should get over it soon.

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PostSubject: Re: How do you feel?   How do you feel? - Page 22 EmptySat Feb 15, 2020 5:15 am

Be well soon, G0lden. *hugs*

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